"You see, that's the problem with you," they said.

 

 "Its not about leaving your doors wide open. You can leave it open but you, the problem with you is that you leave your keys at the doorstep. You don't know who's gonna take it and come in. You're giving people the authority to barge in and lock you in with them. They have the keys, your keys, and you don't have any control over that. They'll keep it, for as long as they like. Pretty soon, when they're bored, they'll open the door and leave. You would think that they might have gone out for a stroll, to run an errand, but that's what YOU think. But most of the time, they're never coming back."

Yes, that's the problem with me.